'Sex'ting for a night of passion

It's often said that actions speak louder than words, but we think words can set your mood right for loud actions. At least when it comes to sex!

Couples believe in sharing their sexual fantasies, indulging in dirty talks and experimenting with their sex moves in bed, presuming it adds to their pleasure. But little do they realise that even exchanging naughty, romantic messages throughout the day can build their mood for steamy sex later on.

'Sex inclined' text messages have everything to push them towards a steamy bedroom romp provided the words used and the mood implied hit the partner's sexual senses correctly.

Dr. Amita Mishra, a sex and relationship expert elucidates, "Apart from sending and receiving erotic text messages to arouse one another, it's essential for couples to keep up the tempo till the time they get back home from work. If you keep exchanging romantic texts during the day, but fail to keep the flames burning in bed later on, all your efforts may just go to waste."

Here are some effective sex messages that partners can exchange to arouse each other for a night of passion...

Your curvy body drives me crazy: A woman loves to hear pleasant compliments about her body. Appreciating her curves and toned body will make her feel happy and in turn push her to love you more passionately. "Giving positive and flattering comments about your partner's body is always taken as a good signal that makes them feel wanted and more attracted towards you. The words should express that you enjoy lovemaking moments with them. Make sure you don't criticise their looks much, as it may act as a turn-off," says Dr. Shivani Gupte, a clinical psychologist.

SAY IT IN WORDS : Your curvy body drives me crazy. Your slender neck descending down to your curvaceous waist and leading upto to your toned thighs, I simply love each inch of yours. Wanna hold you baby!

You have perfected the art of undressing : One sure shot way to tempt your partner for a steamy romp is to build a comfort zone. Since most women feel shy undressing in front of their male partners, their apprehensions by messaging surely helps. "Make your partner knows that you love seeing them getting undressed as it will help boosting their confidence and add to your sexual bliss. They will feel more comfortable next time you get intimate and thus the much hyped act of undressing can be enjoyed in a better way," feels Dr. Chirta Bakshi, a relationship counselor.

SAY IT IN WORDS : The way you strip slowly always leaves me craving for more. I can't express how irresistible you look in that bare minimum look.

Your tender touch is highly arousing : Sex is all about feeling your partner's body and experiencing their touch. Letting your beloved know about how good it feels when their hands caress your body helps in building a romantic mood. "Such expressions of love evoke your partner's sexual senses. These words bring a reassurance to your partner that their gestures and acts are being enjoyed, which would drive them to perform better in bed," states Dr. Amita Mishra, a sex and relationship expert.

SAY IT IN WORDS : Your tender touch is arousing. The moment your soft hands move on my bare body from my back to my chest and sliding down to my stomach, it's stimulates me to love you more.

Your passionate kisses blow me away : A kiss is the best medium to express your love. And telling your partner about how their passionate kisses drive your wild in bed ignites their passion. Dr. Shivani suggests, "Saying it straightforwardly that you want to kiss your partner might sound boring and unromantic. But expressing to someone that you enjoy their kissing gestures will make it obvious that you're expecting much more from them."

SAY IT IN WORDS : Your passionate kisses blow me away. Be it on my cheeks, neck, shoulders, chest or belly, the soft touch of your lips create a sensation that leaves me craving for more.

You're getting hotter each day : Now this one ought to be for both male and female partners as they can use it as the ultimate weapon to arouse each other. Flatter your lover by praising their bedroom performance, lovemaking gestures and sexual acts and this guarantees you a lovable night ahead. Dr. Chitra adds, "Sharing feedback about each other's sexual performance is good, but ensure that it's said in the right sense. Sending messages with flattering words automatically create a feeling of intimacy, so don't shy away from telling them about how good they were in bed."

SAY IT IN WORDS : You're getting hotter each day. Your sexual performance and the newer ways with which you try to arouse me show how much you love me.

Your body scent tempts me so much : Partners do enjoy each other's body whiffs. Sending this message is like a clear hint to your partner that you're asking for a torrid lovemaking session. If they catch the right signal, it might help you enjoy the pleasure like never before. Dr. Amita shares, "Someone's body smell can be felt only when you are close to them, so such a message is the ultimate way to let your partner know what's running through your mind. It will arouse them sexually and would charge up their mood to get intimate with you."

SAY IT IN WORDS : Your body scent tempts me so much. It spreads a romantic aroma all around and sets the mood right for extreme intimacy. It pushes me to remain closer to you.