Saturday, April 24, 2010

What do you think about sex before marriage?

It seems like most people, notably young adults, do it before jumping into a long term relationship.

Personally, I wouldn’t do it primarily due to religious reasons. I know most women don’t like male virgins. They like men who are “experienced”.

What do you think about sex before marriage? If you married a virgin, would you help your spouse through sex? If unmarried, would you pressure your significant other to have sex. If they decline, would you end the relationship over something petty like that?

PS: Personally, I think if people end the relationship because on refuses sex before marriage is petty, next to one who wants kids and one who doesn’t.

Sex is not petty. It’s a form of emotional bonding. I think sex before marriage is fine, but it’s not for everyone and if you choose to wait you should not let others pressure you or make you feel bad about your decision.


my first wife and i were virgins. we gave our virginity to one another, and when it washed out, sex was everything i dreamed it would be and she hated it. in the end our sexual differences tore us apart. the problem with not having sex before you make that huge commitment is that you have no clue what its going to be like. i feel like at least if you have sex before and find out you are just completely different that you can stop from making a huge mistake.


you wouldn’t buy some shoes without trying them on would you.
could you imagine marrying someone who wasn’t compatible with you. how do you even know you two like the same things when it comes to sex. signing the contract before driving the car doesn’t make sense.
Use protection!


for every man who will say oh i wouldn’t wait. why wait? need to know what your getting into.what would you tell your Daughter when it come time to have that talk? I say wait until your married. I wish I had


Can anyone give me the address of the courthouse Adam and Eve got their marriage license? Which jewelry store did he buy her wedding ring at? Did they perform a jewish, catholic or muslim ceremony?

Today’s marriage is a ceremony that man came up with not God.


I respect people who wait, but honesty I feel not every person is sexally compatible with everyone else. There are physical differences as well as sexual preferences, and different frequency needs as well.


Well, if you haven’t been with anyone else you wouldn’t know what you could or could not be missing. That being said my first boyfriend I had sex with was terrible at it and I only realized it after I was with my second boyfriend.
Experience doesn’t really matter, most stuff can be taught.
It’s too late for me know, but I would get married to someone that I never had sex with if that’s how he chose it to be.


I don’t think people should be sleeping around, but if you are together for a long time and you see marriage in the future and sex happens it isn’t the end of the world. I believe in monogamy!


Hmmm… sex can be pretty important in a relationship. It can reinforce your bond, make each person feel loved and desired. And the lack of it can also cause problems. For example, if a guy makes a habit of using porn on the sly and gratifying himself instead of being with his real woman, expect that woman to feel inadequate, sad, and unwanted and your relationship to suffer.

Also, it’s a good idea to be sure that you’re compatible in most regards before tying the knot and yes, that includes sex. I don’t think that it should be regarded as “petty” as you say, but as just one aspect of an intimate relationship. If one person likes it and the other does not, expect problems. If one person wants it far more than the other, expect problems. If one or both people are inhibited and feel sex is dirty then expect problems.

WIth that said, if I married a virgin, of course I’d help him through sex and I wouldn’t think any less of him for choosing to wait, but that’s just me. As for whether I’d end a relationship over a guy’s refusal to have sex- probably not. I would if I suspected he had a negative view of sex or sex hang ups or thought it was “dirty.” That would point to psych problems that I’m just not up to dealing with. If however it was part of his spirituality to abstain, then of course I would respect that and not pressure him.

I think one should take a middle road and make sex neither too important nor unimportant. It is important, but certainly not the only consideration.


Sex before marriage is like test driving a car need to know if the make and model fits your needs. Ok really my wife and I had sex before we were married we lived together before we were married and it was a breaking in period. Getting use to each other I understand the religious aspects but I couldn’t hold back any more dating while dating my wife. PS I was not a virgin when i met my wife.


For all users who say that to have sex before marriage is a sin…where in the bible does it say it is a sin. I already know you will come with scripture about fornication. “Christians”, let’s know how “fornication” is used in context within the scriptures and even look it up in a bible-based dictionary. Fornication refers to sex with multiple partners and sex purely out of lust. You CAN truly love a person and have sex with that person before marriage and it not be a sin. Because of the difficulty of separating love and lust, and also the likelihood of sex leading to promiscuity, it is typically advised not to engage in premarital sex. I have turned the scriptures upside down looking for where it was said to be a sin. It is too easy for Christians to pass down traditional “man-based” beliefs rather than KNOW what the bible is saying. May we as Christians grow in knowledge and wisdom daily so that we can be better witnesses.
God Bless!!!

Friday, April 23, 2010

Eat healthy, lose weight.....

Always imagined losing weight without going on a diet? Here's how you can do just that...

Sounds too good to be true? There are ways that will help you eat healthy, and lose weight at the same time. Read on to know how...

- A close look at food labels is extremely essential as it provides you with the exact calorie count. Comparing labels among different foods and beverages will also result in healthier weight loss options.

- Make sure you consume small meals every three hours to avoid overeating and inconsistency in blood sugar levels. When you starve your body for long periods, it stores fats. Too much hunger could lead to unhealthy eating as well as consuming large portions. Instead aim for a healthy snack such as a fruit to eat in between meals.

- Intake of whole grains, fruits and vegetables is a must for staying healthy since they’re low in calories and high in fibre, which will help you feel full for a longer time. This in turn makes you eat less and lose weight as well.

- Skipping meals is not an advisable option as you’re more likely to over eat or binge when you finally eat after that long hunger break. Starving your body will lead to weight gain rather than weight loss.

- Water also helps you lose weight. Consume enough water to keep yourself hydrated. Don’t wait to feel thirsty to drink water, your thirst at times could be mistaken for hunger, leading to overeating. Keep sipping water throughout the day.

- Exercise daily to keep the flab off and stay in shape. Exercise also helps you boost your metabolism, which makes it easier to lose weight.

- Maintaining a food diary will help you keep track of your current food habits, which will make it easier for you to identify changes in your daily diet in accordance to your weight loss regime.

HOW TO ATTRACT A OPPOSIT SEX..

Thursday, April 22, 2010
HOW TO ATTRACT A OPPOSIT SEX

Keep busy before your date:

Idle minds have time to over-think and over-complicate the situation. Don't dedicate the entire day to waiting for your date to happen, you're a busy person with lots of things to do – and if you don't have anything to do – find something! We've created a checklist of things you could be doing on our site. Your time is important, you're important – which brings us to the next tip.

Never seem too available:

Desperation is the king of date killers. You need to keep the mindset that you are an important busy person that your date is lucky to know. While you can have a mutual respect for your date (even without knowing them intimately) you are taking time from your busy schedule to give her a chance. By always being available, never hanging up the phone first, or constantly calling your date– you're almost guaranteeing you won't have a second date.

Recharge your batteries:

Dating can be tiring, especially when managing multiple dates with different women. If you feel like taking a night off – a weekend off – a week off go ahead and do it. Your dates will understand that you're busy or have personal matters to attend to and they will be there when you're ready to share your time with them. If they request that you have a drink with them on Friday night, just let them know that you'd like to but can't make it this Friday – it's that simple. You're not required to share with them why you can't make it, but it's suggested that you schedule another time you're available to talk or go out.By taking some time off you can be in top condition both mentally and physically.
Drop the comparisons between new and old dates:

Phrases like “Jennifer is cute, but not as cute as Sarah – the girl I met last week” are sabotaging your relationship with Jennifer. Compare dating to playing the lottery, the more you play – the better your chances of winning. Whether you define winning as forming a long and exclusive relationship or just getting your date into bed you have a much better chance if you play the odds. If your date is attractive and intelligent enough to date in the first place, she's already met your qualifications – why further limit your options?
Be prepared for a fresh take on dating:

Let's face it, technology plays a big part in our lives whether you notice it or not. If you've been out of the dating loop for several years or haven't really ever been in the loop you need to learn to use technology to your advantage in the world of dating. Fortunately we're not just talking about microwave ovens and longer lasting light bulbs here – we're talking about communication mediums. Text messages, emails, instant messages – these are all forms of communication that modern people use and can use for dating. While the traditional “Hey baby, what's your number?” is still alive and kicking, it's often easier to get positive response if you're asking for something less personal such as an email or IM name. You may find that fairly often they write down their phone number just in case you can't get in touch with them on line anyway. Aside from communication methods, the Internet provides for an interesting new medium of meeting people. The “Online Dating Craze” has started to become acceptable and extremely effective in matching hot dates

KJo's dating tips,....

The dating game is a complex one and more often than not, isn’t particularly fun either. Let’s not sugar coat the situation; it’s traumatic after a certain age to be single.

If you find yourself in your thirties, single, and struggling to find a suitable suitor, then it’s safe to say that all bets are off and there’s no hope for you. You’ll have to settle for someone your friends, or worse, your mother finds for you, and the thought of those prospects can easily age you another decade.

To counter these depressing facts, I present to you, exclusively, Karan Johar’s tips to successfully escaping the single life, or at least enjoying yourself while you’re succumbing to it.

1. Location — the most important guide to finding the love of your life begins with being at the right place at the right time. Rule number 1: don’t go to the so-called “happening places” on weekends. Only pappus, show offs, and losers party at the ‘hot spots’ on the weekends. If you’re trying to find the love of your life (or the lust of your life, whatever tickles your fancy) it’s not going to happen at a discotheque or chichi bar, and it’s certainly not going to happen on a Saturday night when the riff raff come out to play. Why, you might ask? Go anywhere “trendy” on a weekend, and this is the situation you’ll encounter; women too busy trying to impress other women, and men too consumed with trying to out buy each other at the bar. Instead, venture out on a weekday to a more non-descript, casual joint. Find a place where people can talk. You’re more likely to find people with brains there anyway.

2. Fellow singles — think hanging out with your single friends is the right way to meet eligible men or women? Wrong! Your single friends don’t really want you to find someone. Misery loves company and no one wants to rock that boat. Single people seek solace in fellow singles, and they never, ever want you to find someone before they do. They may in fact wake up every morning putting that energy out there; that whatever happens, they have to find happiness first. Fair enough, you can’t really fault them, waking up alone is a real drone, but I can assure you, they’re in no hurry to play cupid in your life. Instead, try making new friends. Mingle. The more new people you meet, the more new people they will introduce you to. Also, it’s a lot easier to come across as having an impressive personality to people who don’t know you all that well. At least this way, you can con them into finding you someone exciting. Make this the year where you make new friends. It’s always a great goal to have anyway.

3. Mundane marriages — straying clear of single friends doesn’t mean you flock to the married ones. Married friends are too consumed with their own problems to ever really care about your love life. This is a fact. Married couples care about themselves, their marriage, their kids, and their next family holiday. They may seem well intentioned, wanting to set you up with ‘this friend of ours who’s a total catch’ but what they really want is for you to be able to hang out with them without feeling like the third wheel. Married couples just want to create more couples to hang out with them, so that the men and women can amass more allies. Eventually, married couples will fight, and if you’re foolish enough to be both their friends, you will get dragged into the middle of their sordid issues. They will get you to mediate, push you against the wall where you’re forced to take a side, then they’ll patch up and throw you in the dog house for judging them.

4. Gym — there are many advantages to joining (and actually going to) the gym that they deserve their own set of sub points.

i. Obviously, you will become more attractive the more you work on your body. You will feel better, look better, and hopefully you’ll shower that extra time a day and will end up smelling better. Let’s not be naïve — aesthetically, it matters how you look, so get to the gym and break a sweat. It really is the hottest, sexiest thing you can do for yourself outside of your bedroom.

ii. Since you’ve already ventured outside of your bedroom, you’re more likely to find someone at the gym who’s looking for the same thing as you. There’s a reason people gain weight after getting married; appearances don’t matter as much anymore. But single people, we’re a fickle breed, and thankfully so. Chances are, the person pulling weights next to you, or pounding that treadmill hard is experiencing the same frustrations you are. Put it to the test and strike up a conversation and let all those endorphins do the rest of the work for you.

If all else fails at the gym, at least all that pulling and stretching will make up for a lack of anything else you would’ve done in your day.

5. The blind sight — no good ever came out of a blind date. No matter how lonely your life gets, do not fall for the blind date syndrome. This is self explanatory, yet I feel the need to elaborate; anyone interested in meeting you on a blind date is desperate and desperation unfortunately doesn’t have a good looking face. The same applies for dating websites, where the freaks, geeks, and perverts of the web world unite.

6. Travel — Travel, and leave the country as often as possible. This way your exploits wont come back to haunt you and you’ll be exposed to a more open, flirtatious world, where people are less judgmental because they wont know enough about you to judge you.

7. Parental Pressure — parents are beautiful people. They nurture us, teach us the right values and traditions, but love advice from them, maybe not! Learn to accommodate and manage your parents’ expectations of whom you should be with. They may think they know what’s best for you, but they really don’t. Also, you’re the one who has to live with your life partner, so make sure you remind your parents of that the next time they suggest you meet some long lost friend’s daughter for coffee.

8. Therapy — in our increasingly unhealthy world, therapy is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself. Indians, let it be known; there’s nothing wrong with therapy and having a therapist doesn’t mean that your cheese has slipped off your cracker. Therapy provides a perspective into your life that you’re unable to understand on your own. If you’re single, despite trying everything in the book not to be, go try to figure out why that is. We’ve all got issues, buried deep in our subconscious mind, that need to be addressed. If you’re lonely, or relationship phobic, don’t just accept it and reconcile yourself to it, work on it. And while you’re at it, try looking for a good-looking therapist. It could make for a great story in the future.

Why am I giving you dating advice if I’m still single, is a very valid question you might be asking yourself as you read my tips and start to question my integrity. My best answer is that these are things that I am planning to incorporate into my life, and hopefully I’ll have a different tune to sing on the relationship front. If any of these points help you, just send me a prayer, that’s all I need, because I refuse to stay single any longer and you shouldn’t have to either.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Chat up your blind date..

Meeting your date for the first time and wondering what to talk about? Here are five fun yet safe conversation ideas.

A blind date can be a fun way to meet someone new and maybe interesting enough to turn into a life partner or a friend for life. And while the excitement is definitely there, it can also be quite daunting especially since you’ve never seen or met your date before. Of course there’s always a bit of apprehension about what the person will be like and look like, but one of the most nerve-wrecking prospects is what the two of you will talk about. Neither do you want to sound too probing nor do you want to come across as too revealing. The best option is to stay on neutral territory. So, if you’re worried about lapsing into extended periods of silence wondering ‘what do I say next?’, here are five regular, fun topics you can converse about.

Talk about him/her: There’s no better way to start a conversation than talking about the person sitting opposite you. Don’t sound too probing, instead stick to regular topics like hobbies, favourite things they do in their spare time.

Compliments: Everybody loves a person who compliments them on their looks. So if you like your date’s haircut or sense of style, say it out loud. You can then ask them about where they shop regularly or who is their favourite stylist, their opinion of some latest fashion trend doing the rounds and a host of related topics. And while you need to make it a point to keep the other person in focus, remember not be judgmental, there's no bigger put off than that.

Food: Talking about food — favourite cuisines and restaurants, best food memory, idea of comfort food, dishes one dislikes, etc — make for very interesting conversation topic. Here too beware of sounding too righteous while voicing out your opinions on food habits. For example, if you are a vegetarian and your date a non-vegetarian, respect their food choices and don’t lecture them about the benefits about adopting your style. After all, you don’t want to end up having a massive argument.

Movies and music: These topics are also great conversation makers. For starters, ask your date about the latest movie they’ve watched or the latest album they’ve heard and their opinion about it. Favourite movies and movie stars, funniest movies, weirdest movies, most-awful movies, favourite bands, songs and musicians, you can talk about all this and much more.

Spare time activities: What’s life without some fun and some excitement. Finding out what your date does for fun and what excites them or keep their adrenaline pumping will make for great conversation. This will also help you get a glimpse into the lighter side of your date.

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Tuesday, April 6, 2010

10 things to tell your partner in bed.......

10 things to tell your partner in bed
If sweet sugary things can bring you never ending moments of pleasure, what's the harm in being even more thoughtful and finding out what excites your partner.

Saying certain things that can make your partner feel good and perform better in bed is an easy way to achieving sexual bliss.

However, making your partner feel pampered doesn't mean you go on making sugarcoated remarks about their bedroom performance. Instead focus on things that they would genuinely love to hear from you. Furthermore, these remarks need not be necessarily raunchy but a slight sexual inclination is an added advantage, as it will let your partner perform better each time you get intimate.

Dr. Amita Mishra, a sex and relationship expert states, "Making sexual remarks to your partner gives them a kick that makes them feel indulged and enhances their confidence levels too. But it is very important to know what your partner likes to hear in bed. Moreover, ensure that you say the right thing at the right time, as it will instill a feeling of belonging. Telling your partner that you like his/her moves in bed can add to their sexual prowess."

Things that excite women may look drastically different from what arouses men, but the fact is both counterparts like being praised for their sexual moves. While for men, it's more of appreciation for their sexual performance, for women it's the pampering and sweet compliments that hold the key to pleasure. Remember not to say anything at the spur of the moment or just for the sake of it as it affects your sexual relationship in the long run.

Dr. Avdesh Sharma, a clinical psychiatrist and an expert on sexual relations elucidates, "While in bed, appreciate your partner's non-physical qualities, their physical attributes, things that they have done for you, their sexual actions etc. It's a question of picking out the right things. Do not lie because things said in haste are not appreciated over a period of time as they were not honest opinions."

Here's a lowdown on top 10 things that men and women would love to hear from each other during a bedroom romp...

WHAT WOMEN LOVE TO HEAR IN BED

You are as hot as ever : Women love getting compliments and what better way to flatter her than with suggestive compliments about her body and sex appeal. Calling her hot, super sexy, vivacious will make her feel special. "Women love to be seen as unique and different every time, so instead of comparing her performance with the last time, tell her how amazing she is each time you indulge in a sexual act," suggests Dr. Amita.

I love playing with your body curves : Stop portraying yourself as a wild animal waiting to pounce over your partner; stay calm and let your expressions do the talking. Don't let your woman feel that you want her only during climaxing moments, instead show that you equally enjoy foreplay acts such as playing with her body. Since women don't like clumsy compliments about their bodies, so tread carefully.

Dr. Avdesh warns, "Don't go overboard commenting on a female's private parts as it may make them feel like you see her as a sex object. Compliment her figure, skin, persona and then move on to more specific comments."

Your moaning drives me crazy : Again, a compliment, but this time completely sex oriented. Though most women would shy away from telling you if they had a perfect orgasm, they would certainly love if you tell her how her moaning sounds take you into a tizzy. "Most men like a loud woman in bed, as it lets them know if they're giving you enough pleasure or not. By telling her that you enjoy her moaning, you assure her that she's going in the right direction so as to arouse you for more action," feels Dr. Pushkar Gupta, a sexologist.

You play a perfect seductress : This ought to be a genuine compliment and your lady love will love to hear this. Telling her how perfectly she has mastered the art of seduction will take her to cloud nine. In addition, she would device some newer means to arouse you the next time.

"Pick out portions where a female partner has been unconventional in the sexual act and has done something which you always wanted and tell them about this. Such a phrase would boost her comfort level and give her a feedback that you like her seduction techniques," says Dr. Avdesh.

I enjoy kissing each inch of you : Sounds too simple, but very effective! Let your women know how much you love her body and a gesture of kissing can be the best way out. In fact, women are happier during foreplay as compared to hard core sex moves in bed.

"Women love to be pampered and kissing her is one of the best arousal acts. It's very comforting to hear that you love her entire body and she in turn would be more demanding in her sexual pleasure," states Dr. Amita.

Things that men and women love to hear from each other in bed. (Getty Images)
WHAT MEN LOVE TO HEAR IN BED

Let's make it a night to remember : It is commonly believed that men are more sex driven and want to enjoy every night as if there's no tomorrow. But if a female partner shows an equal level of interest in the lovemaking act, it can do wonders. Your man would love it if you shed all inhibitions and enjoy the night of passion like never before.

"Such lovable expressions induce a level of confidence and men get a surety that it's not only him who's interested to have sex on a particular night, but the female partner is equally involved. It also brings in a feeling of being wanted and men love that," shares Dr. Pushkar.

I love it when you touch my pressure points : While guiding your man to your moan zones is one thing, but letting him know that he's correct in his moves is more stimulating. Words of encouragement can let your man know that you are enjoying what he's doing. Whatever you do to applaud them will make your sex romp more exciting, so do not hesitate.

"Talking about the sexual act itself and giving an honest feedback helps a great deal. Appreciating what your partner has done to you in bed and sharing how well it felt is a great thing that men love to hear," confirms Dr. Avdesh.

Darling, let's try something new today : Remember, neither a man wants to play a dud in a bed nor he wishes to make love to a monotonous partner. So, be a woman-magnet and let him know that you too love experimenting in bed. Tell him that you're keen to go out of the way.

Dr. Amita adds, "Men want to try out newer positions and love making acts and once they get a go ahead from their female partner, the performance improves. In fact, men love a participating partner in bed, so whenever they see a female taking an initiative, they get stirred."

I love when you get wilder : It's ok to get dirty and wild at times, but what matters most is letting your man know that you're comfortable with the sexual style. Men often assume a female partner doesn't like getting too wild in bed, but while enjoying the pleasure moments, if you give hints that his wild acts are turning you on, it can be a moment to watch out for.

"Through such indications, the man will not only feel aroused, but will feel more comfortable. Also, he would be amazed to see a wild side of yours, so he'll make greater efforts to love you the way you want," says Dr. Pushkar.

You know I always fantasised about this : Flattery always works and if it's about sharing your wildest fantasies, nothing better than that! Women, generally, are notorious to share their sexual fetishes, but a man would love it if his female partner is outspoken in bed.

"Men love being straightforward and it's a fact that they like forthcoming partners in bed, so sharing your fantasies with your lover can be a huge turn-on and they would certainly love to hear it," says Dr. Avdesh.

Talks that may trigger 'sex'...

A prolonged foreplay, a sexy bedroom surprise, a scintillating candle lit dinner and out-of-the-box seduction techniques – couples use all the above methods to woo their partner in bed.

But very few couples know that sometimes all it takes is a subtle conversation to trigger off a steamy sex session. Conversations that lead to sex act are like potent launching platforms that work towards altering your partner's mindset to match yours. If executed correctly, your partner will want to finish the discussion soon and move on towards getting more physically intimate.

You may wonder how simple conversational topics with your partner can stimulate your senses for an intimate session, but one must remember that a wholesome sexual experience is about a physiological trigger, rather than a physical trigger.

Conversing about subjects like pornography, virginity, sexual preferences, sexual fantasies, sex positions and aphrodisiacs help build the pleasure mood.

Dr. Avdesh Sharma, a clinical psychiatrist explains, "Most human beings react emotionally while talking to others. Only a few behave logically. Since most sexual conversation topics bear hidden double meanings, they evoke our sexual senses and leave us feeling gently aroused. Moreover, it's not only the subject of conversation, but also the tone, voice and body language of the person that gives subconscious signals that aid in creating a sexual mood."

Dr. Aruna Bruta, a psychologist adds, "While having a normal conversation, there is a tendency that you make a caring statement and that certainly triggers a feeling of affiliation, which in turn makes a slow yet sure way towards a fulfilling sexual experience. Surprisingly even the most serious topics related to sexual preferences like virginity and pornography can create an atmosphere congenial for being intimate."

Here are a few conversations that may push your libido and get you going for action in bed.

Fantasy forum : Everyone nurses unique fantasies, tastes and preferences when it comes to sex. From playing with your partner's earlobes to caressing their ankles, hairline and hips to indulging in your fetishes and wild sexual kinks, let these topics become interesting topics to share with your beau sans any inhibitions.

Dr. Amita Mishra, a sex and relationship expert feels, "Once a couple starts sharing their sexual fantasies candidly with each other, it is likely to generate a significant amount of curiosity in both of them and they will naturally wish to try the things which they've just spoke about. Also, once you know about your partner's special turn-ons, you can make the most of them in bed."

All it takes is a subtle conversation to trigger off a steamy sex session. (Getty Images)Poke at porn : Though watching porn is a sure shot and a commonly known foreplay technique, discussing intimate details of a popular porn flick or talking about the latest cover of a porn magazine may also act as a turn-on.

"It completely depends on how you talk about 'porn' as a subject. The essence is candidness and forth-rightedness and not vulgarity. Also, if couples discuss a porn film and later compare their sexual act and partner's performance with what was shown in the movie, it will generate a lot of intimacy and naughtiness that is much needed in a sexual relationship," asserts Dr. Aruna.

Virginity vows : Moral talks are not enticing enough for couples, but they have a propensity to build the heat. Whether virginity is a virtue or a curse remains a debatable subject and if you get lucky enough to talk the issue out with your beau, you may just become willing to put your vows on the test by getting involved in a passion play.

Dr. Avdesh says, "Talking of virginity can lead to both emotional and physical intimacy and once the conversation is kicked off, it totally depends on the ambiance which will then make the mood conducive for sex. You may not feel aroused when you watch such a debate on television, but when you discuss it with your partner, there are chances that an aura gets created for you to get blissfully passionate."

Subtle seduction : Couples spend endless hours trying their luck to seduce their partners, but often they fail to strike the right moan zones. In such cases, it's important to realise that before implementing your seduction techniques, discuss them as verbal foreplay often gives you the much needed push towards the bedroom.

"It's good to let your partner know about the ways in which you like to get seduced. You may start off telling them which wooing techniques turn you on. As the conversation progresses, the couple will be charged up to slip between the sheets," adds Dr. Amita.

Aphrodisiac action : It may sound like a boring topic to discuss with your partner, but it's talking about favourite foods including aphrodisiacs like chocolates, strawberries and caviar may tempt your partner. Dr. Aruna, elucidates, "Talking about passion foods can heighten the feeling of sexiness. In the process of showing concern towards your partner's favourite foods, you make them feel nice, reassured and being taken care of and this comfort zone surely calls for some more intimacy."

Wicked and wild : It may not be on purpose, but the moment you get dirty in your talks and gestures, chances are that you will get carried away and end up making love.

Dr. Avdesh, states, "Though couples hesitate in talking dirty, such lewd talks act as prelude to an intimacy as they evoke sexuality in your partner. Initiating a conversation on these lines is like a beginning to get the other person interested and if he/she responds well, it can lead to greater sexual intimacy. So, it's similar to playing a game of words that automatically leads to sizzling between the sheets action."

Oops, I did it again!......

Are you hot in bed or a hopeless wreck? Read on for tips to get your act right...

What makes a person great in bed? It's not just about the intense chemistry or mind-blowing foreplay. The whole point is to be completely in tune with your partner's feelings and body.

Here is a list of common goof-ups that one needs to avoid in the bedroom.

What’s that?
It's surprising to note the number of people who don't know enough about sex. In fact, not knowing about how your partner's body works can cause a lot of embarrassment in the bedroom. And with the amount of information readily available, one has no excuse for not knowing about basic anatomy. Try the net, sex books and other options. Once you have the basic knowledge right, the rest is all a matter of 'trying and testing' to see what works and what doesn't with your partner.

Read my mind
We expect our lovers to be mind readers. Expecting your lover to second-guess your every desire is rubbish. Just because someone knows you well and wants to please you doesn't mean they suddenly have access to a magic wand or tarot cards. Many of us think that our lover comes equipped with an amazing radar that allows them to know exactly what mood we are in. Well it is upto you, speak up or forever lie back.

Loss of interest
We only seem to like sex at the beginning. But once the relationship is serious, we lose interest in it. This is a general concern. Your partner is all over you in the beginning but then you stop wanting it at all. There's a far less sinister and more logical reason to explain it. People get bored with sex if it becomes predictable. And if we're bored, it's hard for us to orgasm because we need a lot more mental and physical stimulation to topple over the edge. It may not be the healthiest of attitudes but it is understandable. Most people wouldn't dream of sitting down to the same meal every single night of their life yet most couples follow the same routine every single time they have sex. Vary just one thing every time you have sex. It might be a different position. A new room. Turn the lights on or off. Dress differently. Play some soft music. It just takes a little imagination but it works wonders.

A one-sided effort
We always leave sex up to the other person. We often tend to think it's not only our partner’s job to initiate sex, but it’s also their responsibility to do all the work while at it. Learn to take some responsibility in the bedroom. It is wrong to expect your lover to do everything while you just lie there. Take the lead by seducing your partner occasionally. Try and take control during foreplay. Make the right moves and show your interest rather than the other way around. If you want to really impress your partner, initiate sex when your lover is least expecting it, like in the middle of a meal or when at a crowded party.

Body conscious
Most of us are often paranoid about our body shape as we think they are imperfect. The truth is — and it's been proven over and over again — our idea of a perfect body isn't the same as our partner’s. If you think fat and lumpy, your partner might feel otherwise. If you're jumping into bed, worried about your body, there is no doubt that your sex life will suffer. Sex is all about what's happening inside, not outside. If you're desperately trying to suck your stomach in, you're not mentally tuning into being turned on. Being a good lover is about feeling confident and making your partner feel the same.

Hot 'take-charge' tips for her.......

Gone are the days when only men did the chasing and women pretended to be coy. Here are some sexy take-charge tips for the woman who knows what she wants and isn’t shy about it.

In these express times, things need to move at express speed. If you are really keen on that guy living in the building opposite yours and can’t wait to be overwhelmed by waves of passion, try these naughty take-charge tips to shake up your sex life. Why do you want him to make the first move – we believe in equality right?

Load his iPod or MP3 Player
Download racy tracks onto your partner's iPod. Next time he's looking at his playlist, he'll notice a new addition - and titled 'Hot tunes from me', he won't hesitate to hit the 'play' button really fast.

Here are some suggestions:

I Got a Geeling by Black Eyed Peas
There She Goes by The La’s
Two Princes by Spin Doctors
Ego by Beyoncè
U R a Fever by The Kills
Wicked Game by Chris Isaak
Oops (Oh My) by Tweet
The Fixer by Pearl Jam
Timeless Melody by The La’s
Sexy MF by Prince and The New Power Generation
I Touch Myself by The Divinyls
Erotica by Madonna
Je T'aime...Moi Non Plus by Serge Gainsbourg
Turn Me On by Norah Jones
Sexy Back by Justin Timberlake

Be vocal
On the phone, be as imaginative as you would want to. It needn’t be all talk and no action. If you're brave enough, you can indulge in a seriously naughty adventure for two.

The rules

• Make the call when you won't be interrupted and check that he's not going to be busy, either.
• Make sure your surroundings are as pleasant and comfortable as possible. Warmth, candlelight and perfume sprayed in the air will help create the right atmosphere.
• Sit or lie somewhere completely private and comfortable.

The action

• Start slowly and seductively telling him exactly what you're not wearing.
• Keep your voice breathy and sexy.
• Be truthful. Tell it like you're really feeling it.
• If you're missing your partner, let him know. If there are things that you wish he was doing to you, make sure you voice them as graphically as possible.
• If there are things he'd like to have done to him, tell him exactly how you'd do them.

Evocative text
Send steamy SMS suggestions - he'll be so hot for you before he's had a chance to hit 'reply'...

• U know those sexy, black lace knickers of mine? Not wearing them
• I've been watching a dirty movie and I'm feeling inspired...
• Satin sheets or cotton? Can't decide which feels better
• Bought a new scarf 2day. Need U to tell me how it looks... around my eyes

Fail proof text

• Check for typos before hitting 'send'.
• Pace it. Too long between texts and you lose momentum. Too fast and you lose anticipation. Just like sex itself, really...

Let's do it: Sexy sex codes.......

If your house is perpetually bursting at the seams with people, and guests who stay the night, chances are your sex life is really going downhill. You need to quickly fix the problem. Grab your partner’s attention by hook or by crook and then sail off to the never-never-land of pleasure and desire.

Here are some sex codes for you to use when you find it hard to find we-time with your love.

We live in such fantastic times, that if we hint at things, we will have goose bumps; but if we lay them out straight, it will lose some of its charm and shine. Right or wrong? Sex codes take us back to a time when we had to be very careful about what to say and what to do in front of elders and children. More like our grandparents time, methinks. And now to go back to being in that era is indeed charmingly intimate, which makes one feel warm and giggly like a teenager and hot and lusty like a partner, all at the same time! And guess what, when you use one of these sex codes, no one on earth will be able to figure them out provided you don’t spoil the fun by saying something silly or not reacting at all. In fact try doing that as that too will up your erotic quotient in a minute.

Did you know couples who use secret, just-between-us codes have greater relationship satisfaction than couples who don’t? So the next time you want the earth to spin for you, try using one of these lines:


1. Tuck me in bed especially in front of the kids
2. You have homework, honey
3. The monkey is hungry
4. Is that a pistol
5. Let’s play tonight
6. Write 'Date tonight?' with a lipstick on the bathroom mirror.
7. Is there some cheese for a snack later?
8. Chocolate
9. Have your husband/ wife sit by you, massage your neck, and whisper, 'I have a surprise for you in the bedroom.'
10. Where have your kept the ice cream?

Sex, lies and deceit.......

Expert Dr Louann Brizendine has dived inside a man’s mind and confirmed what most women long suspected: men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat.

According to Brizendine, testosterone causes the “man trance”, where blokes have to stare at boobs, reports The Daily Star.

She says: “The best advice I have for women is make peace with the male brain. Let men be men.”

Some of the other findings in the expert’s new book Male Brain: A Breakthrough Understanding Of How Men And Boys Think are:

Men really are sex-crazed
The brain’s part inked to sexual pursuit is two-and-a-half times larger in males than females.

They’re programmed to perv
The testosterone drives what Louann calls the “man trance” - a glazed-eye stare at breasts. She says: “I wish I could say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can’t.”

Men want more partners
According to the book, men want an average of 14 sexual partners in their lifetime. Women want one or two.

Louann says: “It’s postcoital narcolepsy. During orgasm, males release a huge amount of oxytocin in their brains, and it is very sedating. It’s not that he doesn’t love you.”

Men lie more about sex
Biologically speaking, men are more comfortable lying to the opposite sex.

Foreplay round the clock
In case of women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours before intercourse. For men it’s what happens three minutes before entry.

Louann says: “The male brain’s initial emotional reaction can be stronger than the female. But within 2.5 seconds his face changes to hide the emotion, or even reverse it.”

The expert doesn’t reckon her book justifies bad behaviour. She says: “This is not giving men an excuse to rape and pillage. But men do have a right to give voice to their biological predisposition and have it come in to the dialogue.”

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Falling In Love Quotes...

" Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love."
Albert Einstein
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" Before I met my husband, I'd never fallen in love. I'd stepped in it a few times."
Rita Rudner
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" It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you."
Unknown
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" Falling in love is so hard on the knees."
Aerosmith
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" Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy... Anger... tears... laughter.. It's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another. I'm sure of it."
Unknown
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" Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over."
edawe15
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" You'll discover that real love is millions of miles past falling in love with anyone or anything. When you make that one effort to feel compassion instead of blame or self-blame, the heart opens again and continues opening."
Sara Paddison, Hidden Power of the Heart
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" To fall in love is easy, even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be."
Anna Strong
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" Don't fall in love with somebody who doesn't love you back (it's not cool)."
Herbie John
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" Never frown when you are sad, you never know who is falling in love with your smile."
Unknown

" Forget love - I'd rather fall in chocolate!"
Attributed to Sandra J. Dykes
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" I was half in love with her by the time we sat down. That's the thing about girls. Every time they do something pretty, even if they're not much to look at, or even if they're sort of stupid, you fall half in love with them, and then you never know where the hell you are."
J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye, 1945
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" Trip over love, you can get up. Fall in love and you fall forever."
Unknown
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" It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you."
Unknown
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" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
Nora Ephron, When Harry Met Sally
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" It is impossible to fall out of love. Love is such a powerful emotion, that once it envelops you it does not depart. True love is eternal. If you think that you were once in love, but fell out of it, then it wasn't love you were in. There are no 'exit' signs in love, there is only an 'on' ramp."
Unknown
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" When first we fall in love, we feel that we know all there is to know about life. And perhaps we are right."
Unknown
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" Falling in love reminds you that nothing else matter."
Unknown
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" To be mature you have to be an adult but to be in love you have to be nothing but a human being with a heart...i have found that out by being with you. "
Submitted by Ashley Goodale

Dreams Quotes..

Why do I love you? Because you are and always have been my dream."
Unknown
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" Without love there are no dreams."
Unknown
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" Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you only have one life to live and one chance to do all the things you want to do."
Unknown
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" The best dreams happen when you're awake."
Unknown
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" With you my love, I want to start a dream that never ends."
Unknown
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" Like a movie scene, in the sweetest dream, I've pictured us together."
Jennifer Lopez
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" Love isn't something dreamers look for in reality, it's something reality looks for in dreamers."
Unknown
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" Dreams are like stars...you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny."
Unknown
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" Some people have to close their eyes to dream, with you I only have to open mine."
Unknown
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" I think we dream so we don't have to be apart so long. If we're in each other's dreams, we can be together all the time."
Calvin & Hobbes

Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams."
Ashley Smith
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" Dreams are like stars...you may never touch them, but if you follow them they will lead you to your destiny."
Unknown
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" The only thing that will stop you from fulfilling your dreams is you."
Tom Bradley
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" Dreams are illustrations... from the book your soul is writing about you."
Marsha Norman
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" There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other."
Douglas H. Everett
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" Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams."
Unknown
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" Dreams are today's answers to tomorrow's questions."
Edgar Cayce
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" Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there."
Unknown
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" She laughs at my dreams, but I dream about her laughter."
flutefrenzy01 The Click Five
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" Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue, and the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true."
Lyman Frank Baum

" Staying up all night is a waste of sleeping, and a waste of sleeping is a waste of dreaming, and dreaming is important because the more dreams you have, the better chance you have of one coming true."
Unknown
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" I'll do my dreaming with my eyes wide open, and I'll do my looking back with my eyes closed."
Tony Arata
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" You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
derekjw203 Dr. Seuss.
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" So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable."
Unknown
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" Dreams are free."
Unknown
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" Follow your dreams, for as you dream you shall become."
Unknown
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" Life is never easy for those who dream."
Robert James Waller
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" To dream anything that you want to dream. That's the beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to do. That is the strength of the human will. To trust yourself to test your limits. That is the courage to succeed."
Bernard Edmonds
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" Do not lose hold of your dreams or aspirations. For if you do, you may still exist but you have ceased to live."
Henry David Thoreau
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" Yesterday is but today's memory, tomorrow is today's dream."
Kahlil Gibran

" Vision without action is merely a dream. Action without vision just passes the time. Vision with action can change the world."
Joel Barker
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" A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams."
John Barrymore
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" Your dreams come true when you act to turn them into realities."
Anonymous
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" It may be that those who do most, dream most."
Stephen Butler Leacock
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" When your heart is in your dreams, no request is too extreme."
Jiminy Cricket
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" The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
Eleanor Roosevelt
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" Cherish your visions and you dreams, as they are the children of your soul; the blueprints of your ultimate achievements."
Napoleon Hill
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" Deep into that darkness peering, long I stood there, wondering, fearing, doubting, dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before."
Edgar Allan Poe
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" We do not really feel grateful toward those who make our dreams come true; they ruin our dreams."
Eric Hoffer
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" Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts, they serve for sweet relieving, when fantasy and reality lie too far apart."
Unknown

" Dream on do in pursuit of your dream. The dunes are changed by the wind but the desert never changes That's the way it will be with our love for each other. If I am part of your dream you'll come back one day."
Unknown
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" Your the only one that can make
my dreams come true."
xox Destiny xox
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Crying Quotes..

" Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either."
Unknown
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" If you're going to make me cry, at least be there to wipe away the tears."
Unknown
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" If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it."
Unknown
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" I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I’m going to smile."
Unknown
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" There's a girl in my mirror crying tonight, and there's nothing I can say to make her feel all right."
Unknown
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" It's always the same in every relationship, there is always one person crying and wishing to get back together, while the other doesn't even remember the things they've been through. I hate that I have to be the one who remembers every little detail while you can't seem to remember me at all."
Unknown
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" We laughed until we had to cry, we loved right down to our last goodbye, but over the years we'll smile and recall for just one moment we had it all."
Unknown
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" How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had? Why do my tears fall so endlessly for someone who was never really mine? Why is it I miss someone I was never really with? And why do I love someone whose love was never really mine?"
Unknown
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" A great love? It's when you shed tears for him but still you care for him. It's when he ignored you but you still long for him. It's when he starts loving another, and yet you manage a smile and find the courage to say "I'm happy for you."
Unknown
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" One day you'll love me as I love you. One day you'll think of me as I think of you. One day you'll cry for me as I cry for you. One day you'll want me, but I won't want you."
Unknown
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" The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs weep."
Henry Maudsley
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" When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."
Kahlil Gibran
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" Let your tears come. Let them water your soul."
Eileen Mayhew
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" Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward."
Kurt Vonnegut
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" Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts."
Charles Dickens, Great Expectations, 1860
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" The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears."
John Vance Cheney
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" Tearless grief bleeds inwardly."
Christian Nevell Bovee
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" Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water."
Antoine Rivarol
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" A woman wears her tears like jewelry."
Unknown
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" To weep is to make less the depth of grief."
William Shakespeare, King Henry the Sixth

" Time engraves our faces with all the tears we have not shed."
Natalie Clifford Barney
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" It is some relief to weep; grief is satisfied and carried off by tears."
Ovid
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" Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it."
Albert Smith
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" Every woman is wrong until she cries, and then she is right - instantly."
Sam Slick (Thomas Chandler Haliburton)
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" Women are never landlocked: they're always mere minutes away from the briny deep of tears."
Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966
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" Lips that taste of tears, they say,
Are the best for kissing."
Dorothy Parker
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" Tears are Summer showers to the soul."
Alfred Austin, Savonarola
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" Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion."
Steel Magnolias
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" What soap is for the body, tears are for the soul."
Jewish Proverb
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" Tears are the silent language of grief."
Voltaire, A Philosophical Dictionary

" I didn't want my picture taken because I was going to cry. I didn't know why I was going to cry, but I knew that if anybody spoke to me or looked at me too closely the tears would fly out of my eyes and the sobs would fly out of my throat and I'd cry for a week. I could feel the tears brimming and sloshing in me like water in a glass that is unsteady and too full."
Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar
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" The cure for anything is salt water - sweat, tears, or the sea."
Isak Dinesen
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" I like the snot to run a little, the tears to accumulate a bit before reaching for the handkerchief. Then I know I'm really crying. Crying just isn't crying unless it's messy."
D.H. Mondfleur
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" More grievous than tears is the sight of them."
Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943
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" I often want to cry. That is the only advantage women have over men - at least they can cry."
Jean Rhys
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" It is such a secret place, the land of tears."
Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince
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" You know somebody, and they cry for you. They stay awake at night and dream of you. I bet you never even know they do, but somebody's crying for you."
Unknown
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" I love walking in the rain, 'cause then no-one knows I'm crying."
LP411
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" When you were born, you cried and everybody else was happy. The only question that matters is this: When you die, will YOU be happy when everybody else is crying?"
Tony Campolo
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" Why is it you feel like a dope if you laugh alone, but that's usually how you end up crying?"
Michellee Chuck Palahniuk

Crying is right at hand in the smothering dark, closed inside someone else, when you see how everything you can ever accomplish will end up as trash."
Michellee Chuck Palahniuk
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" Crying is the refuge of plain women but the ruin of pretty ones."
Oscar Wilde
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" It's no good crying over spilt milk, because all the forces of the universe were bent on spilling it."
William Somerset Maugham
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" Life is an onion and one peels it crying."
French Proverb
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" We are born crying, live complaining, and die disappointed."
Thomas Fuller
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" I'll start crying thinking about the end. That's a tough one. If you go back to the beginning, I think everybody has a special place for Ross and Rachel."
Jennifer Aniston
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" The body is a house of many windows: there we all sit, showing ourselves and crying on the passers-by to come and love us."
Robert Louis Stevenson
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" There is no sense in crying over spilt milk. Why bewail what is done and cannot be recalled?"
Sophocles
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" Men don't know much about women. We do know when they're happy. We know when they're crying, and we know when they're pissed off. We just don't know in what order these are gonna come at us."
Evan Davis
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" It’s hard to lose someone you love, to finally say goodbye. You try to be strong, but the pain keeps holding on, and all you can do is cry. Deep within your heart, you know it’s time to move on, when the fairytale you once knew is gone."
Unknown

I want to remember how you've made me laugh, and sometimes cry, and I never want to forget how special and different you are. And how you touch my heart in a way that no one else could…"
Unknown
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" As I stared into your eyes, you asked me why I was about to cry, it's because I know you were going to say good-bye."
Unknown
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" They say memories last forever. I sit here, thinking about you, and all the times I had you by my side. I remember the smiles that crept on my face and the happy tears that ran down my cheeks. I see your warm, gentle eyes looking at me, and I can feel your presence when I close my eyes, but when I reach for you, I feel you slipping away... It's like my memory is fading."
Unknown
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" A tear drop falls forever inside a broken heart."
Unknown, submitted by virginia bramer
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Broken Heart Love Quotes...

" When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal."
Unknown
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" Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart."
Unknown
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" I would like to stay a secret, like walking in the dark, if no one knows you, no one cares and no one breaks your heart."
Unknown
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" You don't die from a broken heart.. you only wish you did."
Unknown
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" I wonder, when you look into my eyes and watch my heart shatter, does it break your heart too, even crack it a little bit?"
Unknown
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" The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live."
Unknown
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" Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either."
Unknown
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" Love that remains longest in your heart is the one that is not returned."
Unknown
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" God is closest to those with broken hearts."
Jewish Saying
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" If you find yourself in love with a person who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart."
Unknown

" God can heal a broken heart, but you have to give Him all the pieces."
Unknown
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" If your heart is the strongest muscle of the body, why does it break so easily?"
Unknown
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" Hearts will never be made practical until they are made unbreakable."
Tin Woodsman
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" Hearts live by being wounded."
Oscar Wilde
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" Give sorrow words. The grief that does not speak, whispers the o'erfraught heart and bids it break."
Shakespeare
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" Why must a heart break? Why must a tear drop? ....and why did I forget where I was going with this quote?"
Unknown
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" I looked in the mirror this morning, but I only saw me without you."
Unknown
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" It amazes me so that we enter a relationship whole and leave it only a half."
Unknown
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" If the government could tax broken hearts, there would be no deficit."
Unknown
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" Last night you came back to me and my world was right again. This morning I woke up against my wishes. Why must there be a dawn?"
Unknown

" Time must be healing my broken heart, as I now know this... Your opinions of me were wrong - I am not that bad. My opinions of you were wrong, too - you weren't all that great."
Unknown
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" A final comfort that is small, but not cold: The heart is the only broken instrument that works."
T.E. Kalem
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" Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts."
Unknown
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"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together."
Unknown
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" Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together."
Unknown
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" If we must part forever,
Give me but one kind word to think upon,
And please myself with, while my heart's breaking."
Thomas Otway
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" Love can heal a broken heart."
Unknown
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" Cats whiskers are so sensitive; they can find their way through the narrowest crack in a broken heart."
wolfdyke
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" A broken heart is what makes life so wonderful five years later, when you see that special guy in an elevator and he is fat and smoking and saying 'Long time no see'."
Phyllis Batelle
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" A broken hand works, but not a broken heart."
Persian Proverb

" I try to talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out. And tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my life. And especially how much I want you. But those words may forever stay in my heart-locked inside. Sometimes I wonder if there are words locked inside you too... but I'll never know."
Unknown
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" We must move from asking God to take care of the things that are breaking our hearts, to praying about the things that are breaking His heart."
Margaret Gibb
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" Blessed are the hearts that can bend; they shall never be broken."
Albert Camus
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" Those who don't know how to weep with their whole heart, don't know how to laugh either."
Golda Meir
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" My broken heart will heal after a while, my goal is to see you and not cry but smile."
Michelle
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" This is a retake of my life.
I was his star for many nights.
now the roles have changed
and your the leading lady in his life
lights camera action, your on
but be warned
coz it wont last
same script.....different cast."
Michelle
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" why does it always have to come down to you leaving
before i say i love you?
why do i always use the words that cut the deepest
when i know how much it hurts you?"
Submitted by Sanoria Minor
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" you can't make someone love you no matter how hard you try. but making yourself someone to be loved is effortless."
Submitted by Anonymous
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" When the guy you love so much cheats on you and then breaks your heart then he comes back to you and tells you your the only one he wants the only one he needs and you fall back in love with him and he hasn't done anything wrong so far but then suddenly you realize you don't feel the same for him as you did the last time when you all were together!"
Submitted by Unknown

Break Up quotes..

" Love hurts when you break up with someone, love hurts even more when they break up with you but love hurts the most when you can't or are too embarrassed to tell the person you feel for that you love them."
Alex Williamz
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" I love to shop after a bad relationship. I don't know. I buy a new outfit and it makes me feel better. It just does. Sometimes I see a really great outfit, I'll break up with someone on purpose."
Rita Rudner
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" Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."
Kahlil Gibran
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" A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it."
Submitted by Jon's Baby
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" When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It's like death."
Dennis Quaid
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" There is one thing I would break up over, and that is if she caught me with another woman. I won't stand for that."
Steve Martin
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" Americans, who make more of marrying for love than any other people, also break up more of their marriages, but the figure reflects not so much the failure of love as the determination of people not to live without it."
Morton Hunt
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" If you say, I love you, then you have already fallen in love with language, which is already a form of break up and infidelity."
Jean Baudrillard
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" I was born the day I met you, lived a while when you loved me, died a little when we broke apart."
Unknown
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" My biggest advice for anyone dealing with the heartbreak of an unwanted breakup is to look very carefully at the person who broke up with you and look very carefully at yourself. If you are radically honest, you will see a myriad of ways that you asked for the breakup to happen as well as the ways that you deserve something better in relation to an other."
Moongirl, 2003
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" Maybe part of loving is learning to let go."
From the television show The Wonder Years
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" As soon as forever is through, I'll be over you."
Toto
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" If we must part forever,
Give me but one kind word to think upon,
And please myself with, while my heart's breaking."
Thomas Otway
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" There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go."
Unknown
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" Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional."
M. Kathleen Casey
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" "Old times" never come back and I suppose it's just as well. What comes back is a new morning every day in the year, and that's better."
George E. Woodberry
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" When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us."
Alexander Graham Bell
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" Ask me why I keep on loving you when it's clear that you don't feel the same way for me... the problem is that as much as I can't force you to love me, I can't force myself to stop loving you."
Unknown
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" No man is rich enough to buy back his past."
Oscar Wilde
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" It's a long road when you face the world alone, when no one reaches out a hand for you to hold. You can find love if you search within your soul, and the emptiness you felt will disappear."
Mariah Carey

" Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one."
Ian Philpot
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" Why do you have to break up with her? Be a man. Just stop calling."
Jenny0103 Matt LeBlanc
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" The funny thing about breakups is they point out what we didn't even know we had, but don't give us the option of going back into battle armed with that knowledge."
Unknown
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" Why did you leave me? When did you leave me? Where was I when this happened?"
Unknown
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" He gave me nothing, and he took it with him when he left."
Unknown
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" Based on a string of bad breakups, I was forced to examine my choice of partners. Surely, that must have abolished me from any wrongdoing."
Unknown
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" Every happy couple has at least one breakup behind them."
Unknown
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" No one is spared the pain of rejection, except the ignorant and the fool. Which my ex just happens to be both of."
Unknown
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" We enter relationships as a somebody and leave them as a nobody."
Unknown
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" When I said I didn't want to see you anymore why did you choose that particular statement to be the only one you ever listened to?"
Unknown

Beauty Love Quotes..

" You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her."
David Marsh
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" Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams."
Ashley Smith
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" Love is much like a wild rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense."
Mark Overby
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" It's beauty that captures your attention; personality which captures your heart."
Unknown
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" Think of all the beauty still left around you and be happy."
Anne Frank
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" For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it."
Ivan Panin
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" Love of beauty is Taste. The creation of beauty is Art."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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" Every time you see a beautiful woman, just remember, somebody got tired of her."
Unknown
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" Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it."
Confucius
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" The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart."
Helen Keller

" Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart."
Kahlil Gibran
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" Beauty, more than bitterness, makes the heart break."
Sara Teasdale
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" When you reach the heart of life you shall find beauty in all things, even in the eyes that are blind to beauty."
Kahlil Gibran
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" Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical."
Sophia Loren
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" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye."
Lyneek Miss Piggy
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" The difference between pretty and beautiful is-pretty is temporal-whereas beautiful is eternal."
Bideingmytime
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" A beauty is a woman you notice; a charmer is one who notices you."
Adlai E. Stevenson
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" Practice random beauty and senseless acts of love."
Unknown
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" The true beauty of a woman is her inherent ability to make better a man in every way."
the_write_one Don Williams, Jr
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" I pull you from your tower, take away your pain. Show you all the beauty you possess, if you only let yourself believe."
Sarah McLachlan

" Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder."
Kinky Friedman
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" She's beautiful, and therefore to be wooed She is a woman, therefore to be won."
William Shakespeare
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" Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone."
Dorothy Parker
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" Beauty is simply reality seen with the eyes of love."
Unknown
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" Beauty is truth's smile when she beholds her own face in a perfect mirror."
Rabindranath Tagore
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" Beauty is the wisdom of women. Wisdom is the beauty of men."
Chinese Proverbs
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" Oh she's nice, she's kind, innocent too. She's probably pretty, the right one for you. So just forget me: I'm only a friend. Though I'll be with you, until the end."
Unknown
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" Beauty is unbearable, drives us to despair, offering us for a minute the glimpse of an eternity that we should like to stretch out over the whole of time."
Albert Camus
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" Beauty is ten, nine of which is dressing."
Proverb
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" The only lasting beauty is the beauty of the heart."
Rumi

ANGEL Love Quotes..

" If I ever saw an angel, it was in your eyes."
Submitted by Tamika Cornett
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" Tonight I sent an angel to watch over you, but it came back. When I asked why, it told me that angels don't watch over other angels."
Unknown
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" A true friend is always be there when the whole world left you, he always cheers you up when the whole world has turned you down and he never asks you to act like an angel but he becomes your angel."
Unknown
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" Last night, they were doing a headcount of all the angels in heaven. There was one big problem, the sweetest angel was missing! Please let them know you're ok."
Unknown
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" Love is the angel that wanders within, tormenting the heart."
David Marsh
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" Treat me like an angel, and I'll show you what heaven's really like."
Unknown
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" Maybe God has a bigger plan for me than I had for myself, like this journey never ends. Like you were sent to me because I'm sick ... you're my angel."
From the movie "A Walk to Remember"
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" If only I was with you, I would kiss you. If only was beside you, I would embrace you tight. But since I'm far from you, I'll let the angels do it for me today ... but next time it will be my turn."
Unknown
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" When I think rain, I think about singing. When I think about singing, it's a heavenly tune. When I think about heaven then I think about angels. When I think about angels, I think about you."
Jamie O'Neal
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" Friends are kisses blown to us by angels."
Unknown

Be an angel to someone else whenever you can, as a way of thanking God for the help your angel has given you."
Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
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" Angels descending, bring from above,
Echoes of mercy, whispers of love."
Fanny J. Crosby
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" We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing one another."
Luciano de Crescenzo
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" All God's angels come to us disguised."
James Russell Lowell
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" God not only sends special angels into our lives, but sometimes He even sends them back again if we forget to take notes the first time!"
Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
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" When babies look beyond you and giggle, maybe they're seeing angels."
Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
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" The guardian angels of life fly so high as to be beyond our sight, but they are always looking down upon us."
Jean Paul Richter
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" If I have freedom in my love,
And in my soul am free,
Angels alone that soar above,
Enjoy such liberty."
Richard Lovelace
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" How wonderful it must be to speak the language of the angels, with no words for hate and a million words for love!"
Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994
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" The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God."
Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994

" These things I warmly wish for you Someone to love, some work to do, A bit o' sun, a bit o' cheer, And a guardian angel always near."
Irish Blessings
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" They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love."
William Shakespeare
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" An angel in disguise she was, but somehow you fell for her. Until she broke your heart that day, and left you in the rain, but still I love you."
Unknown
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" Who loves not a false imagining, an unreal character in us; but looking through all the rubbish of our imperfections, loves in us the divine ideal of our natures - not the man that we are, but the angel that we may be."
Alfred, Lord Tennyson
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" May we live in peace without weeping. May our joy outline the lives we touch without ceasing. And may our love fill the world, angel wings tenderly beating."
aziza Irish Blessings
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" Somewhere someone is thinking of you. Someone is calling you an angel. This person is using celestial colors to paint your image. Someone is making you into a vision so beautiful that it can only live in the mind. Someone is thinking of the way your breath escapes your lips when you are touched. How your eyes close and your jaw tightens with concentration as you give pleasure a home. These thoughts are saving a life somewhere right now. In some airless apartment on a dark, urine stained, whore lined street, someone is calling out to you silently and you are answering without even being there. So crystalline. So pure. Such life saving power when you smile. You will never know how you have cauterized my wounds. So sad that we will never touch. How it hurts me to know that I will never be able to give you everything I have."
dramatica28 Henry Rollins
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" 'Tis strange what a man may do and a woman yet think him an angel."
William Makepeace
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" A real friend is like an angel who warms you by her presence and remembers you in her prayers."
Unknown
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" Treat me like an angel and I'll show you heaven."
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