SEX TURN-OFFS

Men can irk women by:

• Not shaving. The hard brittle hair has the tendency to put her off. When the lady turns her head from side to side, it's not passion, its avoidance.
• Taking inspiration from porn movies and implementing it in the bedroom, without understanding your partner’s needs. In real life, everyone doesn’t like it.
• Taking pictures. Keeping in mind the MMS scandals, she may not trust you.
• Giving love bites. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and scarves for days together.
• Thanking her for having sex with you.
• Turning the other way without a bit of a cuddle or kiss and going off to sleep immediately.
• Not respecting her will on whether she wants the lights on or off.
• Another big turn off is not washing up. Men have thicker skin and also perspire more. Every lady doesn’t like the stale, sticky, fishy smell.
• Being too rough or licking her wet all over the body.
• Expecting the lady to deal with or throw the used precautionary device.
• Assuming that if you are ready for sex, the lady is ready for sex too.

Women can irk men by:

• Presuming that men are always ready and willing to have sex any time, any place.
• Not being assertive in bed and not telling him or guiding him about your likes or dislikes and complaining later.
• Expecting him to be as alert and talkative after sex.
• Not moving at all. Men prefer equal participation.
• Not being spontaneous. Sometimes sex outside of the bedroom is fun.
• Undressing in the dark. If you are feeling shy, dim the lights, but diving under the covers won’t help either.
• Having a bored look on the face. Men are more visual than women. Give him something to look at and indicate that you are not dead.
• Forgetting that the man also likes his body to be touched.
• Leaving him on his own after arousing him.
• Cleaning up immediately afterwards.
• Making a big deal out of it if he loses his hard-on