Can you forget your first love?
26 March 2010, 12:00am IST
That first look, that shy smile and that gentle first touch...do these emotions trigger off nostalgia in you? While your first love maybe lost in time, somewhere within your heart, the memories of your first love still linger on. Whether or not you've moved on in life, whether you've found love once again, does your first love still make you emotional. What is it about your first love that makes it almost impossible for you to get over the cherished moments? Are our first love experiences truly 'unforgettable'? Or is merely a choice to be embroiled in our past that keeps us revisiting our memories?

Parankush, Pantu, 26 March 2010, 03:50pm IST
In that way,you never forget anything you do in life. There will be a soft corner for 1st love.

In that way,you never forget anything you do in life. There will be a soft corner for 1st love. Back..

Mayank, Hyderabad, 26 March 2010, 03:40pm IST
Love is Love. It cant be first or second. Life doesnt stop for anybody.

Love is Love. It cant be first or second. Life doesnt stop for anybody. Back..

Prassana, Bangalore, 26 March 2010, 03:08pm IST
yes its very easy to forget first love . only thing we need to do is find the 2nd love.

yes its very easy to forget first love . only thing we need to do is find the 2nd love. Back..

SHANTI, Bangalore, 26 March 2010, 02:41pm IST
Why to forget the pleasant moment of Love which happens by its own b'n two without plan! Not to forg More »

Why to forget the pleasant moment of Love which happens by its own b'n two without plan! Not to forget r to strive loosing. Its like a fragrance to remember! rest is life as accepted by circumstance. Back..

Prachi, Bangalore, 26 March 2010, 02:19pm IST
YES Ofcourse !!!

YES Ofcourse !!! Back..

Sanjay, Nasik, 26 March 2010, 02:13pm IST
We never forget. Even we die. u understand and agree on it.

We never forget. Even we die. u understand and agree on it. Back..

JP, pune, 26 March 2010, 01:46pm IST
there is no such thing as love... its just lust, that people term as love... learn to control your More »

there is no such thing as love... its just lust, that people term as love... learn to control your hormones and the lust will subside... Back..

S A Halim, Imphal, 26 March 2010, 01:28pm IST
It still lingers in heart

It still lingers in heart Back..

Je , India, 26 March 2010, 12:42pm IST
If one side no value for the love .. If both have love so itz tough to forget the first love .. . so More »

If one side no value for the love .. If both have love so itz tough to forget the first love .. . so dont love Back..

jaxx, Lovers point, 26 March 2010, 11:26am IST
There is an age old concept of love, and such is so mechanic that everybody in love wants to be a cl More »

There is an age old concept of love, and such is so mechanic that everybody in love wants to be a closest epitome of that concept. That concept is what we associate with the so called legendary lovers - laila majnu, sohni mahiwal, shiri farhad. The lovers who laid their everything for love. This is good as far as one is doing everybit for the beloved, but LOVE in its own essence says not to hurt but just love. Just that we have been told such unfortunate-ended but great love stories, does not mean that there could not be any other dimension to this wonderful feeling of love, "TRUE LOVE" rather I say. Before their times, there has been the existence of LOVE and couples had been coming together that never got the mention because they lived happily after, but there had been complete love and will always be keep happening in between in the thick. The idea is that "Love" is a feel, and is not bounded. If one has really known the meaning of Love, even one's beloved wants the other to be happy, with him/her or other. If Love in the past hurts, then we are getting the flawful meaning. Back..


yes, if its easy to forget if its only one side(from ur end).initially u may feel bad, once u get good match and settle in life, u never feel u lost something. Back..

AKB, S'Pore, 26 March 2010, 10:33am IST
Love ( I had once and first time) is something to enjoy a life - may be with some problems and with More »

Love ( I had once and first time) is something to enjoy a life - may be with some problems and with so much love you may not realise that time. But when it breaks you would understand what it is !!! How good to live with it is!!! Thats why love is always ultimate passion / eternity , one cannot really express, its to realize!! Back..

kunal sheikh, bhadrak (orissa), 26 March 2010, 10:26am IST
palke to ankhon ki hipazat karti he,Dhadkan to dil ki amant hoti he, yeh isque bhi bada azib hai kab More »

palke to ankhon ki hipazat karti he,Dhadkan to dil ki amant hoti he, yeh isque bhi bada azib hai kabhi chahat to kabhi sikayat hoti hai Back..

PP, Blore, 26 March 2010, 09:38am IST
In my view,love is not very imp.What is imp is physical relationship with women.

In my view,love is not very imp.What is imp is physical relationship with women. Back..

pranay, BHILAI, 26 March 2010, 08:58am IST
Yeah i really think it hurts n recalls me of my earlier relationship with that gal .......i still re More »

Yeah i really think it hurts n recalls me of my earlier relationship with that gal .......i still remember the feeling yaar .................n it's truly divine Back..

Ritu Raj , Mumbai, 26 March 2010, 06:48am IST
I would not be able to forget...Revist your masti days with a novel called 'the guy next door' I am More »

I would not be able to forget...Revist your masti days with a novel called 'the guy next door' I am sure that you will be chershing each moment with some tears in your eyes and smile on your face... and lots of love in your heart... Back..

sreenath, mumbai, 18 March 2010, 04:04pm IST
happiness is good health and a bad memory

happiness is good health and a bad memory Back..

TJ, Goa, 18 March 2010, 01:59pm IST
I can't forget Ayushi ever. First love is true love

I can't forget Ayushi ever. First love is true love Back..

Rishabh, pune, 11 November 2009, 12:14am IST
Yes any one can forget his or her first love. With time the old memories fade away and new ones are More »

Yes any one can forget his or her first love. With time the old memories fade away and new ones are created. Back..

rajagopalan, mumbai, 9 November 2009, 02:20pm IST
I cannot forget her. May be she has forgetten me by now. She was close college pal.

I cannot forget her. May be she has forgetten me by now. She was close college pal. Back..


AK, Germany, 8 November 2009, 11:27am IST
First of all, who would decide if it was love at all. It may be the age-effect, may be curiosity or More »

First of all, who would decide if it was love at all. It may be the age-effect, may be curiosity or may be infatuation. My answer is YES. Back..

vijay, london, 6 November 2009, 07:34pm IST
Considerably yes. Forget first love,second love, last love,everything

Considerably yes. Forget first love,second love, last love,everything Back..

Akash, Bangalore, 4 November 2009, 02:31pm IST
Yes,we can forget but not in terms of feeling and that person because things we first did in our lif More »

Yes,we can forget but not in terms of feeling and that person because things we first did in our life are mostly unforgettable and that feeling nobody wants to forget,but if you want to move on you can. Back..

Tejal, Singapore, 4 November 2009, 12:45pm IST
First love is true love, where love is innocent and eternal... Rest of the time you fall in love, it More »

First love is true love, where love is innocent and eternal... Rest of the time you fall in love, its just life. I'm trying to never marry again after my first love didn't work out, as I cannot live a lie. The memories will remain fresh in my mind even after 50 years. I hope he gets someone better than me in this life, and does not go through the pain I am going through. Back..

dudegecu, ujjain, 14 October 2009, 02:12pm IST
A normal person cannot forget.

A normal person cannot forget. Back..

Ashwin, Pune., 21 September 2009, 09:28pm IST
I cannot forget my Revathy. Maybe she can?

I cannot forget my Revathy. Maybe she can? Back..

sandeep, delhi, 6 August 2009, 03:29pm IST
i am never able to forget kritika

i am never able to forget kritika Back..

sgd, hdh, 23 July 2009, 02:29pm IST
hdsh

hdsh Back..

pinky, indore, 20 July 2009, 08:58pm IST
whatever we do first time we never forget ...first love, first kiss, fisrt GF/BF so i think love is More »

whatever we do first time we never forget ...first love, first kiss, fisrt GF/BF so i think love is that thing we all await for that...and first love gives nice expericences and some kind of new feeling so thats y its not easy to forget that but not impossible also...if u want to live in present then live the past in past think abt present that wud b the best present(gift) for u to urself. Back..

Ananya, St. Louis, USA, 20 July 2009, 07:37pm IST
Honestly every person is or was important to us, forgetting someone is not possible but the intensit More »

Honestly every person is or was important to us, forgetting someone is not possible but the intensity dies. I don't believe in first love but I do believe in Love. It is impossible to forget true love, and it can happen any time after numerous flings or affairs. It depends if your first love is your true love then its certainly painful to forget. Back

r, delhi, 20 July 2009, 06:30pm IST
It is impossible to forget the first love..may be you will get the better perosn or soulmate later.. More »

It is impossible to forget the first love..may be you will get the better perosn or soulmate later...but the feelings for first love is unmeasurable...thats the point from where you got to know what is the feeling of love...as a result it will be with you till the time you alive as a wonderful memories Back..

SV , Dubai, 20 July 2009, 05:59pm IST
Never could forget you Priya.

Never could forget you Priya. Back..

SV , Dubai, 20 July 2009, 05:59pm IST
Never could forget you Priya.

Never could forget you Priya. Back..

Anil, AE, 20 July 2009, 05:11pm IST
Whatever happence in our life, the memmories of our first love will note fade... the time might goes More »

Whatever happence in our life, the memmories of our first love will note fade... the time might goes on but the nostalgia of first love remains forever..!!! Back..

raman , bbsr , 20 July 2009, 03:54pm IST
i miss her even after 3yrs.. still love her

i miss her even after 3yrs.. still love her Back..

Your Muse, World, 20 July 2009, 03:39pm IST
What matters is how deeply emotional the first and subsequent experiences of loving are. First love More »

What matters is how deeply emotional the first and subsequent experiences of loving are. First love has a special place, but it can be overtaken by a deeper love experience later. The impact of any relationship depends on the depth and length of the emotional intensity. As long as one does not feed the memory, first love can be overcome even if it can never be forgotten. Nothing in life is actually forgotten as old people will affirm. It just gets submerged with other memories. Back..

amit, panipat, 20 July 2009, 02:25pm IST
ofcourse u can forgot ur first luv but u required a very strong determination to do this.....but try More »

ofcourse u can forgot ur first luv but u required a very strong determination to do this.....but try anyone can do it.... Back..

vishrut, chandigarh, 20 July 2009, 01:41pm IST
its impossible to forget your first love.. the memories remain forever..

its impossible to forget your first love.. the memories remain forever.. Back..

vishrut, chandigarh, 20 July 2009, 01:41pm IST
its impossible to forget your first love.. the memories remain forever..

its impossible to forget your first love.. the memories remain forever.. Back..

raghuvansh, Lucknow, 20 July 2009, 01:25pm IST
yes its a cake - walk to 4get your love the reason is simple see life is all about option the day u More »

yes its a cake - walk to 4get your love the reason is simple see life is all about option the day u find better u move...so wont if u r luv ditch U its part of life and always do remember that nothing is for forever Back..


Shivtej , Nahsik, 20 July 2009, 01:06pm IST
Yes. if they don't remember you ..y should you remember them and spoil ur mood!!!!

Yes. if they don't remember you ..y should you remember them and spoil ur mood!!!! Back..

Balaji, UAE, 20 July 2009, 12:36pm IST
That nostalgic moments together always keeps me fresh when I think of them. Those were great moments More »

That nostalgic moments together always keeps me fresh when I think of them. Those were great moments. Back..

amit , barmer, 20 July 2009, 11:59am IST
yes one can bcz all dese things like feelings and all are rubbish......

yes one can bcz all dese things like feelings and all are rubbish...... Back..

Unnamed, Bangalore, 20 July 2009, 11:02am IST
No... impossible for me.. you can obviously keep it out of your mind but can never forget it.... it More »

No... impossible for me.. you can obviously keep it out of your mind but can never forget it.... it may also depends from person to person and their intensity of love.... Back..

devayan, kolkata, 20 July 2009, 10:36am IST
yes u can forget your first love if u fall in love again...and feel the way u had felt..the first ti More »

yes u can forget your first love if u fall in love again...and feel the way u had felt..the first time.it depends on the passion of your partner.but ofcourse you need some time to forget..or rather move it to your subconsious mind. Back..

devayan, kolkata, 20 July 2009, 10:36am IST
yes u can forget your first love if u fall in love again...and feel the way u had felt..the first ti More »

yes u can forget your first love if u fall in love again...and feel the way u had felt..the first time.it depends on the passion of your partner.but ofcourse you need some time to forget..or rather move it to your subconsious mind. Back..

richa, gurgaon, 20 July 2009, 10:24am IST
ya..but if only you get a better 2nd one.but if u r alone after your break off you will never forget More »

ya..but if only you get a better 2nd one.but if u r alone after your break off you will never forget him. Back..

Ashish, Patna, 20 July 2009, 08:25am IST
I will never forget my first love.......

I will never forget my first love....... Back..

Prem, Jaipur, 20 July 2009, 07:23am IST
It is possible and better to forget the physical pleasure to always cherish the soulful happiness. I More »

It is possible and better to forget the physical pleasure to always cherish the soulful happiness. In fact, doing so may inspire the spirit of love in the present juncture. Back..

Prem, Jaipur, 20 July 2009, 07:23am IST
It is possible and better to forget the physical pleasure to always cherish the soulful happiness. I More »

It is possible and better to forget the physical pleasure to always cherish the soulful happiness. In fact, doing so may inspire the spirit of love in the present juncture. Back..

Kumar, chennai, 19 July 2009, 11:53pm IST
Yes One can forget his/her first love when other comes in

Yes One can forget his/her first love when other comes in Back..

Kumar, chennai, 19 July 2009, 11:53pm IST
Yes One can forget his/her first love when other comes in

Yes One can forget his/her first love when other comes in Back..

soumya chatterjee, kolkata, 19 July 2009, 08:55pm IST
yup!! it is possible... if the second love is far better than the first one..

yup!! it is possible... if the second love is far better than the first one.. Back..

Juhi, India, 19 July 2009, 06:32pm IST
Yes...it's not a big deal to forget....!!!!

Yes...it's not a big deal to forget....!!!! Back..

indu, dubai, 19 July 2009, 04:27pm IST
I will never ever forget my first love ,though we parted ways I cherish the memories for lifetime

I will never ever forget my first love ,though we parted ways I cherish the memories for lifetime Back..

Simz, Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, 19 July 2009, 12:25pm IST
Memories do fade however a person is blessed to remember. But any first thing that occurs in life is More »

Memories do fade however a person is blessed to remember. But any first thing that occurs in life is stored in his/her Brain's memory blocks, which even mentally retarded don't forget; for ex. Mother Tongue and so is LOVE. Cycling, Shooting, Swimming could be other examples, that never go out of mind so easily. Back..

Jateel, Pune, 19 July 2009, 02:57am IST
It's a quite difficult and long process...you will remember that person whenever you are in need of More »

It's a quite difficult and long process...you will remember that person whenever you are in need of support , care and help .. but you need to realize that you are on your own and count on your friend .. they will always be therefor you .. But in the long run .. its better you move on.. then holding on to the past.. since its never going to be the same.. so just let that person go..Just cherish the good moments .. remembering then will always will make you smile..Just enjoy life as its comes... its the best way out for both the person.. Best of luck for the future and god bless you Back..

Bikas Biswal, Sambalpur, Orissa, 19 July 2009, 01:33am IST
It is quite easy to forget your first love, provided you are a man and are currently in a very bliss More »

It is quite easy to forget your first love, provided you are a man and are currently in a very blissful, satisfying and stimulating relationship. Not so for a woman. (This is as per a British scientific study). This is precisely the reason why women (more so than men) should always try to make the extra effort and go the extra mile to make their first relationship work, which unfortunately does not happen too often. Any second relationship never satisfies a woman. So it is not good for the man (in that kind of a relationship) either. Back..

LA Sheikh, Pak, 15 July 2009, 02:11pm IST
mostly people forget but not confirmed

mostly people forget but not confirmed Back..

vj, australia, 15 July 2009, 11:41am IST
its all state of mind. it doesnt matter to remember or not. it could be good or bad. but its good go More »

its all state of mind. it doesnt matter to remember or not. it could be good or bad. but its good good to remember to enjoy the sad or good part of it. Back..


vj, australia, 15 July 2009, 11:41am IST
its all state of mind. it doesnt matter to remember or not. it could be good or bad. but its good go More »

its all state of mind. it doesnt matter to remember or not. it could be good or bad. but its good good to remember to enjoy the sad or good part of it. Back..

samz, Delhi, 19 June 2009, 08:47am IST
Well !!1 i would say yes bcoz that was your past and don't get upset as you should enjoy ur 2day and More »

Well !!1 i would say yes bcoz that was your past and don't get upset as you should enjoy ur 2day and 2mrw with ur life partner or wud be... Back..

SWAPNIL, MUMBAI, 15 June 2009, 03:39am IST
yes certainly, if your present girl/ boy has the passion, and u give your everything posible to make More »

yes certainly, if your present girl/ boy has the passion, and u give your everything posible to make the relation stong.. it does the magic Back..

kapil, australia, 14 June 2009, 10:31pm IST
It depends who was ur first love..if ur first love is ur parents den offcourse not...but first love More »

It depends who was ur first love..if ur first love is ur parents den offcourse not...but first love for a gal/guy..it vanishes as soon as u get somebody who loves u much more den u loved dat gal/guy..most of the times its just infactuation at the first instance..love develops a bit slowly.. Back..

pritesh, australia, 14 June 2009, 07:08pm IST
wats love .. my first love is ma mom so cant be forgoton,, when ppl see love word why always think a More »

wats love .. my first love is ma mom so cant be forgoton,, when ppl see love word why always think abt their partner,, i knw my debate is strange ,,, Back..

akshya, canada, 14 June 2009, 06:48pm IST
First love.. nowadays.. the society we live in, we are not even aware when do have first love. if on More »

First love.. nowadays.. the society we live in, we are not even aware when do have first love. if one really does, then it might get difficult to forget...not forgetting is fine but after couple of years.. whats the need to remember! I enjoy my life living in present, thats what make my future good. Back..

Sameer, Jubail, 14 June 2009, 05:46pm IST
I,will never ever forget my first love ,though we parted ways .i cherish that memories for lifetime More »

I,will never ever forget my first love ,though we parted ways .i cherish that memories for lifetimeBack. Back..

Ashfaque Mohammed, Saudi Arabia, 14 June 2009, 05:04pm IST
It is not possible at the starting period, but one thing everybody has to understand that every huma More »

It is not possible at the starting period, but one thing everybody has to understand that every human being, even if he or she thinks i cant forget but keep on making new relations with others, If you take out grey and select black or white then it will be Yes - It is possible to forget. Why and Who will wait if someone dont care for you why you should be care for it. Back..

Anchit, Australia, 14 June 2009, 04:07pm IST
ha ha ha... first love is funny... and super easy to forget...

ha ha ha... first love is funny... and super easy to forget... Back..

rajesh, mumbai, 14 June 2009, 02:08pm IST
I, vividly,remember the my first love though i lost it.i cherish that memories for lifetime

I, vividly,remember the my first love though i lost it.i cherish that memories for lifetime Back..


Neo, Zion, 14 June 2009, 01:39pm IST
Of course you can forget your first love. I dont even remember who was my first love or when was it! More »

Of course you can forget your first love. I dont even remember who was my first love or when was it!!! Back..

Sruthi, Abu Dhabi, 14 June 2009, 01:15pm IST
I will say forgeting first love is difficult but not impossible because if with the second love the More »

I will say forgeting first love is difficult but not impossible because if with the second love the person is getting all that he/she expected in life then can forget the first love easily. Back..

BOND, INDIA, 14 June 2009, 11:59am IST
FIRST LOVE,IS AS A THUNDER IN A CLOUD,NO MATTER HOW HARD U GAZE AT IT,IT DISAPPEAR,JUST KEEP THE FLA More »

FIRST LOVE,IS AS A THUNDER IN A CLOUD,NO MATTER HOW HARD U GAZE AT IT,IT DISAPPEAR,JUST KEEP THE FLASH IN MIND AND SEE THE WORLD Back..

xyz, ksa, 14 June 2009, 11:39am IST
first love is nothing but infatuation which is a very good feelings.but when u really love a person More »

first love is nothing but infatuation which is a very good feelings.but when u really love a person u want him or her at any cost.at the time of marriage if u r thinking about her means that is not love and true love starts only after marriage.remembering past can spoil our present.one should be comfortable with present instead of remembering past.how much u care and love ur patner u will get the same from him or her. Back..

Pinki, Haryana, 14 June 2009, 10:51am IST
Yes, You can forget your first love, if someone later loves you a lot. And you start loving him or h More »

Yes, You can forget your first love, if someone later loves you a lot. And you start loving him or her who loves you Back..

Parul, Mumbai, 14 June 2009, 10:33am IST
Not forgetting your first love wil only bring you pain and sorrows and make you upset and depressed. More »

Not forgetting your first love wil only bring you pain and sorrows and make you upset and depressed. stop wasting time on those people who are no longer a part of your life. stay happy with ur present love. Back..

manu, delhi, 14 June 2009, 10:32am IST
Why not! After all, first love is meant to just take the experience of life and learn from it, so th More »

Why not! After all, first love is meant to just take the experience of life and learn from it, so that you do not repeat any same mistake in your future relationships. Back..

rakshanda, Mysore, 14 June 2009, 10:31am IST
If the person has cheated on you, then there's no point even remembering that person ever in your li More »

If the person has cheated on you, then there's no point even remembering that person ever in your life. such peopl do not deserve your care and affection at any stage in their life. So its better to forget them completely. Back..

sneha, gurgaon, 14 June 2009, 09:33am IST
well luv is luv,it shudnt be count as 1st or 2nd.wen u luv sum1 its d eternal feelin but fortunately More »

well luv is luv,it shudnt be count as 1st or 2nd.wen u luv sum1 its d eternal feelin but fortunately or unfortunetly sumtyms we dont be able to live up or get wat v want but evry1 has got a match n d person start luvin sum way or d other,its up 2 u hw u take ur present.forgetin a person means no feelings 4 dat person but only if u hac made ur present more beautiful dan before n its only up 2 "u".i hav forgeted my 1st luv cz i luv my present d most. Back..

Madhur, Delhi, 14 June 2009, 08:43am IST
Yes, one can forget if the second love is worth ir!

Yes, one can forget if the second love is worth ir! Back..